5 Reasons To Be Selfish – Harish Rao

5 reasons why comparing yourself to others will make you fail

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Why is everyone else always so much better than you?  Why are they . Well, in reality this is all in your heard and I will tell you why you need to change your mindset because comparing yourself to other will have you fail in the end!

Your competition is with yourself. If you are trying to reach your full potential there is no reason why you should compare yourself to what others. In the end you are putting the focus on the wrong person! Focus on yourself and what you want to become in life, set your goals and work on yourself and you will notice that everyone will not be able to keep up with you.

You won’t peruse your dreams. In the end, comparing yourself to others will not add any value or meaning to your life. It will only distract you from working towards your goals and dreams.

Too much focus on your weaknesses and not your strengths. What makes you special and unique? What do you feel you can do better than others? You have your own set of unique culture, knowledge and strengths that others admire in you. When you focus on this, you will create a positive environment to grow and learn and you will get ahead of everyone!

You should lead, not follow. They say only dead fishes go with the stream. And when you compare yourself to other this is exactly what you want to do! Follow in their footsteps when you should actually create a path on your own. In the end you will die lived someone else’s life so be daring and lead the way to a new future!

Will not energize you. In the end, comparing yourself to other is a losing game. There will always be persons that has reached higher or you find better then yourself. But see this as a learning curve. Always surround yourself with others that are smarter than you and that will help you grow and learn, THIS will energize you and make you strive to become better.

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